OverThinking: The Brains Netflix Series You Never Asked For

Let’s be real — overthinking is basically your brain’s way of running a 24/7 streaming service… except the episodes are just you replaying old conversations and imagining worst-case scenarios that never actually happen. The plot twists? Nonexistent. The cliffhangers? Brutal. The ratings? Zero stars.
But if you’ve ever found yourself stuck in that loop — lying in bed replaying the text you sent, or stressing about what someone really meant when they said “sounds good” — you’re not alone. Overthinking is common, especially in a world where we’re constantly bombarded with notifications, opinions, and the pressure to “have it all figured out.”
Why We Overthink
- We want control. Your brain thinks if it replays every possibility, it can protect you from embarrassment or failure.
- Social media pressure. Seeing curated lives online makes you second-guess your own choices.
- Fear of judgment. We worry about how others see us, sometimes more than how we see ourselves.
The Problem with Overthinking
The issue? Overthinking doesn’t give you more control. It just drains your energy, keeps you stuck, and robs you of peace. It’s like keeping 47 tabs open on your laptop — the more you try to manage, the slower everything runs.
How to Chill Your Mind
Here are some quick Gen Z-friendly hacks to step off the hamster wheel:
- Name it. Literally say, “Oh hey, I’m overthinking again.” Calling it out helps you separate you from the thoughts.
- Set a time limit. Give yourself 10 minutes to think about it, then move on. Your brain doesn’t get unlimited screen time.
- Distract with movement. Go for a walk, dance to your playlist, or hit the gym. Your body can break the thought loop.
- Write it out. Journaling or even dumping thoughts into your Notes app clears mental clutter.
- Ask: will this matter in 5 years? If not, it probably doesn’t deserve today’s energy.
The Real Flex
The real flex isn’t never overthinking — it’s learning how to catch yourself before you spiral. When you let go of needing every answer right now, you create space for peace, creativity, and actual fun.
So next time your brain wants to premiere another season of “What If They Hate Me,” remind yourself: you’re the one holding the remote.







